Saturday, February 11, 2012

why my husband cant stay hard longer?


Are you facing sexual problem regarding your husband or boyfriend performance who cannot stay hard long enough to satisfy you? Perhaps he starts to climax and eventually ejaculate just around two minutes at most? He can achieve erection but simply cannot maintain it long enough for more satisfied session. Having to face this situation is understandably frustrating.

However, as a woman you must understand your man situation. Staying hard for long is a massive job for man's system. The fact is, one of the most common sexual issues among men is their inability to stay hard long enough. They can have a normal erection but they just stay hard for a short moment after some penetration.

Why staying hard longer is a massive job?
Blood supply needs to be pumped out. Heart must works overtime. The attention and mood must be there. It is not easy, but there are solutions on how to stay hard longer.

Getting erect is the easier part. Simply by imagination a man can get an erection. But to maintain it longer is another part. Most men can achieve maximum erection. The only thing they cannot achieve is to maintain it longer. That's why even men with kids are still struggling with premature ejaculation.

Premature ejaculation is believed to be associated more with psychological issues rather than physical organic diseases involving reproductive tract or any known lesion in the brain or nervous system. However, physical factor such as sensitivity level also plays a part.  

Most men with premature ejaculation will easily gushing out sperm and climax easily before their wife could even feel the "workmanship" of their husband. They cannot try varieties of position because the time of staying hard is too short. Scientifically this phenomena is called premature ejaculation, that is premature arrival of climax that makes the man cant stay hard anymore after that.

So why my husband can't stay hard? Why my husband achieves climax too fast? Why may man is too weak to maintain hardness?

He might got several issues that affect his sexual performance. But basically this problem could be solved and treated properly. Varieties of drug and sexual enhancement products are sold on internet and pharmacies. But get it right!

What you should know is where to get the actual deal, not some sort of cheap gimmick from salesperson who only want to push his product to you. There are real product that deal with this issue and there are also fake solutions that give you more headache.

So the issue here is, why my husband can't stay hard?

There are several possible answers for this. These are some common possible reasons:
  • Your husband might have a super sensitive sexual organ that cannot withstand rough penetration. Genetic factor also plays a role.
  • You husband have certain health issues such as high blood pressure or low libido.
  • Your husband is overwork and always in the state of fatigue.
  • Your husband is not fit enough because lack of exercise, experience and nutritional care to make the best of internal sexual prowess.
  • Your husband don't have any clue about the art of staying hard in bed.
  • Your husband is too self centered and only thinking about his own satisfaction without consideration to his partner (you).
  • Your husband keep the problem to himself because of ego or shyness.
  • Your husband drink or smoke heavily and don't take care about his health.
  • you and your husband still not hear about Priligy
  • your husband is overweight or obese
So depending on the case, you and your husband must make certain actions and "two way communication" on how best to handle this issue before it goes out of control, making your relationship turns sour. I know talking to your husband to ask him to do something he does not want to do is not easy. But at least you must try. Your husband need your help and support.

How to make my husband stay hard longer?

Talk to your man, that's the first step. Ask him to see a doctor to get proper prescription. he can take Viagra or Priligy.

For an alternative suggestion, I would suggest your husband that he should apply anti sensitivity cream called Brutal 31 lotion. Using brutal31 cream can make his sexual organ more robust and sturdy. In fact brutal 31 will make your husband to stay hard longer way beyond woman time to achieve orgasm.

For pills, your husband can take Priligy Dapoxetine before going to have sexual relationship. The pill is already approved in some European countries and in phase 3 of US FDA authority approval.

If you don't want your husband to take drug to assist him in sexual performance, you can ask your husband to have a stronger pelvic floor muscle so that he can have more control over his climax. To gain this strength, an exercise called Kegel exercise can be employed.

Certain exercise is really effective to make man stay hard longer. One of it is called Kegel exercise. Kegel exercise is an exercise to make pelvic floor muscle to be stronger and the erection more solid and harder. It makes the sexual organ to be stronger and stay hard longer. Ask you husband to learn and do Kegel exercise to have a wonderful and meaningful sexual session.

Make sure your husband take a proper diet that is good for sexual performance. Advice him to take supplements if you could afford. Zinc supplement is good to boost testosterone level for men.  However, other natural fruits and vegetables that rich in vitamin are basically good for men. 

Using a condom also is a good alternative to make man stay hard longer because condom will reduce the sensitivity factor for men.

See a professional doctors if your problem still persist. Do not simply ask him to take Viagra without prescription from doctor.